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How To Accept That Your Never Going To Get An Answer For What Has Happend?
ByHow do you accept that your never going to get an answer as to why something has happend in your life? For example how do you accept that your never going to get a reason for why your dad walked out on you as a child, or why you and a boyfriend split and you dont talk anymore. Or even why did i have to miss that train, or loose my job? How do you find acceptance that these things happen and your never going to get an answer?
3 Comments
September 26th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
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September 26th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
There is no answer.
But…
there is no responsibility too. Sometimes.
Things happen, simply. Sometimes, we can change this: we can act and make things to go in different way.
Sometimes we have not any chance to change things: so, why to ask for reasons? There is no reason.
I use your example: what can I do about a father – dad is a too big word in this case – going away when I was a child ? What could I do ?
Why did he so ?
But, in fact: if I had no way to change things… is it so important to know the “why” ? It is possible there is no why but he was an evil man.
Too hard to accept ? I think it is better than to give the fault to myself.
September 26th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
You mirrored my life. Scary. I accept what I can’t fix and move on. I learn from my disappointments and never repeat the past. Whatever tears me down I use it to make me stronger. I learned a long time ago, things out of my control will always remain out of my control. Live your life the best you can and learn from everyone or thing that has done you wrong. The questions still remain, but at least you can make the best of it.